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12th February, 2004 at 02:43:17 -

Your my kinda admin WCB!
Alot of good posts have been closed when all they need is just some good moderation.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 02:50:03 -

Yeah good going Wong, although I agree with much of what Rhys has said, I still think its good that your using unconvential methods, ie: not just slapping a 'this topic has been locked' sticker on it and filing it under topics that went wrong.

Muggus, I found your bogan reference quite offensive HAHAHA, you probably didnt expect many people to get that.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 03:14:21 -

I don't have a problem with sex before marraige as long as there is genuine love between the two people involved. Casual sex, on the other hand, will do nothing but numb your feelings when there actually is love involved and will make the experience less special. At least that's the way I see it.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 03:57:39 -

thanks for wasting 10 minutes of my life Wong Chung Bang.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 04:05:37 -

Ah, so that's why I don't like alcohol. If anything, I need a drug to tighten my tounge. I'm the kinda guy who'd talk about anything to anyone shamelessly. Or I could just stay up late. Being really tired, I start saying things I never even knew I felt.
Yeah, I'm doing just fine without alcohol, and I'm not going to try and fix what aint broke. (Though the real reason is probably that I'm too cheap to buy any.)

 
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12th February, 2004 at 04:07:01 -

I wouldn't know whether I like alcohol, because I'm too young to drink it.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 04:58:46 -

I agree with Wong - as long as this is a mature discussion then we won't have to lock it. IMO its a very fair topic (although a bit adult orientated).

As for me... well I prefer to keep my private life private As in "not share it with everyone"

 
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12th February, 2004 at 06:28:48 -

No problem, Rhys - any time.

Even though I'm "supposed" as a Christian to believe that sex outside marriage is fundamentally morally wrong, I believe that it's perfectly valid. Not, of course, the kind of casual sex between two drugged-up morons in a bathroom in the back of a club in Ibiza or the like (that rather disgusts me) but instead consensual lovemaking between two partners, whether married or not.

How sweet.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 07:08:25 -

I dont see how it could be banned, unless the authorities go all Big Brother on us, and install surveilence cameras in the bedrooms

 
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12th February, 2004 at 07:25:15 -

Even then people would still do it, anyway, that's getting side tracked. Anyway, the whole point of waiting till marriage, is that you do it with the same person for your entire life. Now, by this time, chicks really appreciate that. I mean, the idea that you saved yourself for her, will never have anyone except her, and decided not to have any sex at all, JUST so you could have more sex with her. Now, it doesn't quite have the same effect on us guys, but it really gets gals in the mood. Now, THAT is a sexual investment.

Dude, sure I may be trying to work out what to do, and how to do it on my wedding night, but the fact that it's my first time makes it special enough. If it's her first time, she won't be dissapointed, because she's never had any better. Then as I get some practise in, I should be the sexual expert within a week. (I plan to get a lot of practise each week.) I don't care if our first time is special. The plan is firstly to make, MY first time special, and secondly, to make the second, third, fourth... ...fourty-two thousand five hundered and fourth, and my fourty-two thousand five hudered and fifth time special.

Trust me, ask around, the majority of the chicks would prefer to thier husband to be virgin on her wedding night, as opposed to her husband being experienced. They'd be busy worrying how they match up, and of coarse they won't believe you 100% when you tell them you're the best you've ever had.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 07:39:51 -

I admire your resolve in deciding to not have sex before marriage, but it seems you're abstaining for the wrong reasons... the way you said "chicks really appreciate that" and "puts gals in the mood" reminds me of the average Sun reader, although what you said at the same time was quite reasonable - it's all the more special to save it for the one person.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 08:08:17 -

The world will one day be overpopulated because of these posts.I'd say in about 10 years the global population density will be 5.8 humans per square inch. Crowds suck,especially dense and big ones.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 08:50:55 -

Snerlin of Neonair: IIRC, research shows that in richer countries and in countries which promote safe sex, there are lower child-birth rates. It's only when there is no access to "protection" and when people need children who can work early to help fund them in their old age that things start to go wrong. In fact, in some countries there isn't ENOUGH children being born!

 
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12th February, 2004 at 11:08:39 -

forgive my cynicism, but some chose not to divuldge in sex before marriage simply because they're not going to get some anyway.

and, based on some of his past postings, and not meaning to be horrible, i think this is probably the issue here, but i'm going to ignore chamber's stupid comments like "sexual investment" -- to which his reasoning is flawed as there's this little thing called lying which many men are capble of -- and add a sensible opinion like almost everyone else has managed to do.

i see absoloutly no problem with sex before marriage. religious teachings on it are outdated and serve little purpose on modern society (and i'm not sure that religion has stopped people in the past, anyway).

furthermore, there are 2 types of people with regards to sex: those who see it as a bit of a laugh, something fun, or those who view it as an intimate exchange of bodily fluids and a proclomation of lurve (sweet lurve). i'm not actually sure which group i would put myself into; but my general cynical nature would lean me towards the former. and i can see that a man in the latter classification would be willing to save himself for the "one".

oh, here's a stupid/sarcy thought to summise: get laid now, because you've got less chance as you get older. and you never know, it could be shit, so you'd have been waiting for nothing.

 
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12th February, 2004 at 11:09:21 -

dammit dont delete peoples posts. I want to read them.

 
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